میوه تلخ

 درختی که تلخ است وی را سرشت 

گرش برنشانی به باغ بهشت 

ور از جوی خُلدش به هنگام آب 

به بیخ انگبین ریزی و شهد ناب 

سرانجام گوهر به کار آورد 

همان میوه ی تلخ بار آورد

#فردوسی

Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans: — John Lennon

 

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A new challenge: Pleasure vs happiness

Externally destitute, internally magnificent

 Some of the best people I met in my therapeutic practice were people who, on the surface, had nothing worldly going for them. They weren't attractive, they weren't intelligent, they weren't accomplished, they weren't popular. In fact, they were often friendless, they often had devastated families, they had terrible developmental histories, they just had devastated lives. And yet, there was still a core of ethical goodness to them that was stunning under the circumstances. It was like miraculous to see the essential nobility of the human spirit (From a psychologist)

Don't let someone else's ignorance wound you twice

don't eat with people you wouldn't starve with

There is 100% return on FUN

The Experiences with People whom you truly love are permanent

Conflict deferred is conflict multiplied (Peterson)

 

You will be the same person in five years as you are today except for the people you meet and the books you read. Charlie Tremendous Jones

Sometimes we get used to how great our life is

Some of the best people around me including myself are suffering from life dysmorphia

You can’t love your children too much. Janet Nast

There is a difference between someone who wants you and someone who would do anything to keep you

The greatest tragedy of the family is the unlived lives of the parents. Carl Gustav Jung

Thinking is difficult, that’s why most people judge. C.G. Jung

Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people. Carl Gustav Jung

I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become (Gustav Jung)

Jung: The world hangs on a thin thread, and that is the psyche of man

Arsene Wenger -14 Advices

 ۱۴ فرمان
آرسن ونگر، مربي فرانسوي آرسنال كه از سال 1996 هدايت باشگاه آرسنال را بر عهده داشته است، در اين نامه راه هاي قدرتمندتر شدن تيم خود را در 14 مورد اينگونه بيان مي كند

در داخل و خارج زمين فوتبال مثبت باشيد
هركس صحيح ترين تصميم را با توجه به منافع تيم بگيرد
اعتقاد راسخ داشته باشيد كه مي توانيم به هدفمان برسيم
به قدرت تيم ايمان داشته باشيد
هميشه بيشتر بخواهيد - هميشه بيشتر بدهيد
بر روي ارتباطاتمان تمركز كنيد
از خودتان بيشتر بخواهيد
براي برد سرزنده و آماده باشيد
بر روي داشتن قواي ذهني بيشتر تمركز كنيدو هيچگاه كار را نيمه تمام رها نكنيد
وقتي در زمين حريف باز مي كنيد به آنچه كه هستيم ايمان داشته باشيد و آنگونه فوتبال بازي كنيد كه دوست داريم در خانه بازي كنيم
متحد باشيد
به عنوان يك انسان و يك بازيكن متواضع باشيد
در هر كاري كه انجام مي دهيد نشان دهيد كه مي خواهيد برنده باشيد
از هر مشخصه ويژه اي كه درباره عضويت در يك تيم وجود دارد لذت ببريد و شما هم در آن نقش ايفاء كنيد - اما ارزش آن را بدانيد و هيچگاه مزاياي حضور در تيم را مسلم فرض نكنيد